Wednesday, April 12, 2006


Why is it that things we fear most occur?
People we love most from our actions suffer?
Why on sharing their pain we can’t take it away?
Yet in out bad times can’t keep their tears at bay?
Why is it that in troubles , our tears form a stream , only to realise that joy was across it?

Why is it that out of molehills we create mountains of worries, doubts with trust buried beneath it?
And then crumple looking for it?

Why we never give joy a chance …
Why we don’t think that life is meant to be lead happily?
And believe in ”too good to be true” ?
But in bad situations, we expect it to get worse?
Why when life is at its best, we expect something to wrong?

And yet in turbulent times, we say “that’s life”.

Why do we pray only when we are left with no other alternative..
Without realising had it been our first choice we would never have been lost at all?

Why we kill innocence in childhood by letting kids not trust strangers?
Instead of asking them to be strangers that anyone would trust?
Why is the unknown always feared and never looked forward to?

Why we intinctively guard ourselves against nice people, afraid that they aren’t real but fraud?Why we expect the worse out of people we don’t know?

Why are we balmed for lack of priority sense if friendship ,relations come before work?
Is love itself not GOD’s sacred work?
Why innocents who pay for trusting blamed more than those who break them?
Why those who love unconditionally called emotional fools?
Why are there millions who laugh with you but few to cry with you?

Why we spend half our lives in fear of being hurt and the other half in regret of neverhaving trusted ?
Why after reading this , you feel cynical about how bad the world is without thinking how much better your many improvement can make in it?


aditi said...

Hey if any of u have answers to these questions ,then do tell me also

Tapasya said...

There is only one answer: All "why's" cant be answered...these are the questions that probably everyone faces at different times in their life, under different have very aptly put them together ... but unfortunately, the answer is still unknown...probably we are in a state of eternal fiasco when it comes to such questions...

aditi said...

Reply(tapasya)Maybe but yes at least we can change our approach from negative to positive

ash said...

deep thoughts,forces one to think bt harsh realities of life,besides inspiring us to become optimistic.

aditi said...

thanx didi .....i guess all we can do.....accpet the harsh facts of life and then fight them out.

Ankur Jain said...

I think the answer of all these "why" is our fear from hapiness, we don't want to be happy with things we have because we always fear that what happens if we lose any of those, how bad we feel if something like that happens ... and to run away from the fear of loosing hapiness we don't want to be happy and thats the biggest "WHY" we have to think about and try to change if possible... it's possible lets give a try atleast

aditi said...


So true again!You realy have a great deal of wisdom...i mean sometimes its difficult to identify the problem when you face but you have pointed out everything sooo clearly.. asi have seen in each of ur replies.
In this case...yes sometimes fear happiness for the fear of losing seems silly when realise this but there is a need to realise this at the right time.But i still can't find any solution ito it?

Ankur Jain said...

I think the solution to it is to have someone on whom you can trust because in such situations no one can think at his own (thats the problem) so everyone need that someone with whom he can share his problems and get a nice ,sometimes hard but a genuine and unbaised opinion. And you know i got one more last night

aditi said...

thnx dear,so did i.....:)