Thursday, April 26, 2007


A long time overdue blog......This is with reference to my blog on pain....firstly it was a rare outburst and very different from all others,generally my blogs are meant to give hope.But this is"discovering life" and pain is a part of it.....whether we admit it or not...so i feel it necessary to convey it esp for the benefit of people who face such situations and understand it.Hiding pain ,being negative,emotional and speaking your mind are all different things.to speak ones mind genuinely is required..honesty of word and emotions is good.(in fact that what blogs also do occasionally!)But at times some situations do not demand that.Somethings you know are not important enough affect people close (and they are only ones who have the right to know them) simply because that feeling itself is exaggerated.And that also happens.....and in that case it is best to starve that feeling instead of giving it any attention.Being emotional is a trait...not something that can be classified as good or bad.And its degree also varies.Being negative is something people need to avoid...but i am by no means negative...no matter what else...my hope stays always...

8 comments:

Tapasya said...

I agree. Its best to keep some things to yourself, especially if they affect others close to you badly.

aditi said...

Reply[Taps]
I think you have misunderstood this one...not exactly to hide things,just to display less emotion and that too only if its not related directly to those ppl but mostly just something internal to yourself.....as in we usually discuss problems with people important to us but in somecase we like to shelter them away from them so as to not affect them.

Prasoon said...

You have given voice to what I always tell others to do and they say its such a waste.

If there is something (good or bad I dont care) that I have been feeling with people around, I make it a point to let the concerned person know. First, you're liked bcoz you were frank but then later on when they realize that this is true at every positive or negative thought, they psyche out (especially at the neagtive ones). People dont consider emotions important and to them, an emotional person is a 'failure' but i disagree with all this. :)

These very emotional kind of people (including me) do tend to do what you said - we run away just to make sure people around us are not affected !

Tapasya said...

[Adi]
I just dont understand, right?
(Self-Evaluation Mode :D)

aditi said...

etReply[Prasoon]
"to them, an emotional person is a 'failure' "
So very true...wonder why?
But i didnt mean running away exactly.But not sure what i did mean right now.Somethings in life are never clear.

aditi said...

Reply[Tapasya]
In some cases...esp those unique to me...sometimes noone can.

Anonymous said...

This is correct ..one should not be negative because one harmful event cantt over-shadow you..else you havnt evolved with time.that can blow your poise..
Pratibha

saurabh said...

Hope is the basis of life....Truly said.

"....honesty of word and emotions is good.....But at times some situations do not demand that..."

What i think is maybe not expressing ur true feeling could give a time of pleasure...

But in the end it would end on a sad note of misunderstanding, confusion, betrayal and maybe much more....