Monday, October 30, 2006

The "feel good " factor

"The worst quite never matter what.
Ultimately there is some good in everything"

This is what is resounding in my mind these days.And it reinforces my belief in GOD.Every situation,no matter how hopeless it might seem,does improve eventually.I meaan, life seems so strange when moment we cry as broken forever and the next moment something happens and life is ok again.And its not always that something big happens, often its the small pleasures of life which make it so lovely and magical.
The small pleasures of being able to laugh your heart out, of being understood, of being successful(even if in just completing a day's schedule)...anything.sometimes hope comes in the least expected way,but we just know in our heart that now life will stabilise again...when there is total darkness, even a ray of light is enough to give us hope...and that ray always comes,we just need to wait long enough with faith...
"so when you want to give up, hold on just a little longer"
Afterall difficulties area part and parcel of life.Without them,we wouldn't be able to realise the value of pleasure.Pain not only makes us stronger but also helps us grow from within.We become more aware othes' feelings and situations only if we have gone through some tough situation.And in those hardest moments also do we realise the value of lovedones who are there to depend upon when most gives a sense of security and peace.And to be able to lift someone from that strom is better still.So next time you feel helpless, help someone else...and you will end up helping yourself!We need people around us.No man can be an island.We all need to be reassured sometimes,cared and cherished and valued ...It's a basic need,which if acknowledged would solve most of out confusions.Its ok to seekout wellwishers around you and ask for support when feeling weak instead of isolating yourself and brooding.And be willing to do the same for others whenevr you have the opportunity.The soul also needs to be fed sometimes.And it feeds on that"feel good"factor that comes when we are carefreely happy and relaxed and makes the heart cry out


Tapasya said...
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Tapasya said...

Some wonderful words again!

No man is an island ever of his that somewhere before I guess.

Joys reside in the most atomic things, we only have to learn to extract them. Each one of us is important and beautiful, even a beetle has an enviable form! God's world is lovely. Each one of us has a special purpose, and we need to identify this to lead a happy and content life.
I have recently turned happily optimistic (as you very well know), and I love the feeling, even if it means that I have to call bullshit a fertilizer! Lol.

aditi said...

reply[taps]Congrats on turning optimistic!but somehow i think ur mistaking happiness for optimism...u seem a little scornful of optimism even now...It means believing the best even when a situation is not in ur favour...