Monday, July 02, 2007

The extent of severity of any situation depends on the person ,the way of living , the attitude.
A mild form of severity can also feel equally harsh to someone not used to it.
It doesnt necessarily depend on the strength of the person....
But what IS strength?To endure unfavourable circumstances well.But what does "well" mean? I mean one aspect caters to how the person manages his/her duties and maintains an equilibrium during sucha situation.But another aspect also exists...
What we make easier for ourselves by escaping the situation partly and escaping well....and also without any negligence.Is it good?Don't know 'coz sometimes it makes you feel like a machine ...sometimes it seems as if you arent allowing yourself to feel the full extent of grief even when you care simply because you tell yourself you need to manage well.Is that ok?It doesnt change anything except that despair comes in glimpses rather than continuously.

5 comments:

Tapasya said...

sometimes it seems as if you arent allowing yourself to feel the full extent of grief even when you care simply because you tell yourself you need to manage well.Is that ok?

Yes, it is. At times, we need to project a superficiality about ourselves. This always exists on the external level, internally, we dont quite escape any situation. To have thought of this itslef shows that you care, and that you feel the need to live by hope. Your being strong helps people around you- your family and friends feel more secure.

StandbyMind said...

Even I dont know...Many of us run away from them..Keep running...But I am sure they always chase us..until it forms a web around us!!!

Phoenix said...

I'd say life is a continuum of grief but for the effort intermittently made by us to escape, deny or steal some joy.
It's worth it too.

Ankur said...

Very nicely written !!!
The secret of getting over the grief don't lie in just to force ourselves not to think about it or to tell our selves that it's not bad ... it's all about feeling that it's not bad and try to find something good in it too becuse i belive there is always something good in everything so lets give ourselves a chance to explore the good instead of running from bad ....

aditi said...

Reply[Ankur]
So true....
makes sense again after phase...
[Taps]
dont stop commenting on my blogs yaar now that you are there...Inpires ...
[Phoenix]
i dnt totally agree...life is beautiful....or wud be if we gave it a chance to be ....
[standby]
but we can get out of that web...