Sunday, May 02, 2021

I am not OK

There was a challenge to write a post titled "I am not OK". What better time than now with COVID infection.

I have lost the sense of smell and taste. Literally, no sense of any smell and taste. I put on cream and nothing. Soap, nothing. Even with perfume. It started with me not liking chips. Well, sometimes, pringles can be a little off I thought. But when I couldn't even taste a mango, I realized there was something wrong. It felt bland, slightly sweet but no flavour and tang. And that is how my life continues. Flavorless.
Corona has weird effects. There is the tiredness. On days, actually several times a day, it's tough to get up from lying position to drink water but the throat keeps drying. A trip to the washoom or kitchen is exhauting enough to demand the rest worth of a few kms walk.
Why a walk to the kitchen some may wonder. Well, when corona hits the family, one stills needs to cook and clean. It is not a break. Except from easy breathing. Easy reading. Easy anything.

For days, lights troubled. I couldn't tolerate the glare of any light.  I couldn't read. And I read a book a day.
Any day. Every day. Until suddenly it hurt to roll eye balls. Reading and grasping became beyond me. I saw just words. I couldn't even read sitcom brief descriptions on the TV.

Then there have been the bouts of crying. Full blown wailing and crying. For the fears. For me. For family. For the isolation. For no reason. Corona brought about a weird sense of depression which kind of continues. It's too easy to cry. Too tough to sleep. The weird insomnia continues. I need to see broad day light to fall asleep now. Darkness brings about too many lurking shadows. 

Now there is also a haziness around my brain and ENT. I can hear very little and process just as much. The rest goes off in a fog of haze. If I hear 5 fast sentences from my son, I have to ask him to slow down. I forget terms. Does a person remain fully functional after the fever dies does in corona? No. Not by far. Do they ever become fully functional again/ when does that happen. I have yet to find out. That haze around my head, throat, eyes, ears and nose persists and wantomly entangled any of these into not functioning.

So I am not ok. Not right now.  No excuses. No niceties. Just the bland truth to go with bland corona times.

Sunday, April 25, 2021

Go away Corona times!

This is to record where life has taken us all with the hope that some day this will seem unbelievable, like a fable.

There are no beds in Delhi hospitals. And where people are admitted, some have died due to lack of oxygen.
No oxygen! Finally we have come to stage where easy breathing is slowly becoming a luxury.

Last year, mostly the most vulnerable were getting infected and becoming seriously ill. The motto was "If you go, you may be ok but you may infect someone vulnerable close to you". Now even the healthy are getting hospitalized. Last year, people feared getting hospitalized/quarantined. Now people are fearing for their lives. Last year, lockdown was  novelty, a challenge to overcome. Right now it really does not matter whether lockdown opens or not. People are too busy in isolation and struggle for survival to go out.


Gone are the days when the common cold was a bit less common. Now it can be lethal. Families are isolating themselves because of it. Parents from kids, partners from each other and in some cases different members get isolated in different rooms. This is to isolate and fight the virus. We are isolated yet together in this fight. 

When it seemed like a last stretch, started a new journey with its own set of new challenges. We reminsce pre-covid times. Someday, there will be a time post-covid. When the world will be mask free again. When gatherings will be happy. Travelling fun. And cold, just a 2 days rest for the body.

We have probably all dreamt of high-tech society. Flying cars maybe. Robots as slaves. And of course driverless cars are in a way here. But for now, let us all come together and pray for the populace to be able to breathe easy. And then we can all hug our loved ones freely again.




Sunday, March 21, 2021

What color am I?

The hues of sunset
The tints of baby shells
The soft hint which shows on baby cheek and feet
The color of blush
And skin warming with a rush
The color that lies between the ears of so many animals newborn
A color from early morn

Wednesday, March 10, 2021

A fight to nothingness

I fought to be heard,
I fought to talk,
I fought for freedom and breathing space,
I fought for companionship,
I fought for all that was important to me.
I fought mightily,
I fought all,
And now there is noone, nothing.
I am nothing.
As my nothingness dissolves into open space,
The world continues at its regular pace.
I wonder why I fought at all,
I wonder what I fought as I look at the empty space.

This women's day, acknowledge the individual

A woman is not a supporting role. She is not there to be a mother, daughter or wife, she is an individual with her own life. Who may need a man in a supporting role just as vice versa. Her purpose in life is to fulfill her destiny, not that of the people around. Though she may choose to do so if that brings her joy. But it is her choice. Or rather it is supposed to be. 

So, this women's day, wish women but not in the context of any relation but as individuals. That by itself is enough. Acknowledge that she can be self sufficient. 


Tuesday, January 26, 2021

Lessons from "The Lego Movie"

Recently I saw " The Lego Movie" which my son had been longing to watch. An animation movie which turned out to contain pearls of leadership wisdom. It was the kind of movie which made me immediately take notes which I am sharing below.
It's protagonist is Emmet, this worker who believes in following rules and tries his hardest to fit in by being as "normal" as possible. He forgets to be himself and is only remembered as the "yes" guy when he gets lost. However, when he is told he is special, he achieves wonders. There is a powertug between the imaginators who want to create with freedom but are derisive about rules and the ruler who wants everything to stay as is to the extent of glueing everything together. I will not add more to avoid spoilers. Watch to see how it finally turns out!  Here are some special thoughts from this special movie:
  • Everyone is special, interesting and extraordinary if they believe so. Tell them, they may not have heard it before

  • It is not necessary to micromanage

  • But the rules and process are necessary

  • Invention and imagination go hand in hand

  • But teamwork is necessary for implementation and that requires a process

  • There is no need to be rigid like glue, one needs to adaptable

  • Unexpected people can create great things is they are given a chance

  • We shouldn’t lose our individuality to fit in

  • Instead of looking superficially positive, sometimes just be honest.

  • Normalcy is underrated

  • It’s possible to learn from anyone

  • It’s good to just play at times

The pink fairy with the iron sword

"Lets harvest the smiles and success of the previous year and sow the seeds of nascent, fanciful dreams for the year ahead"
Happy New Year (being January, it still holds for me!)
After long last, I fulfilled a long term dream! With all your good wishes, I finally published my poetry book. 
This book is titled "The pink fairy with the iron sword".

Description: This is a collection of poems across a decade depicting the life cycle of a woman from teenage to womanhood to motherhood. The hope ebbs and rises and the maturity of writing changes throughout the chapters as we proceed chronologically. It depicts the balance of the pinkness of the femininity with the strength of the iron sword which are all held together with a tinge of magic which we all have within us.

It is a collection of poems reflecting various stages in a woman’s life from teenager to motherhood. An attempt has been made to touch upon diverse experiences visualizing about a decade long typical journey of a woman. It dwells upon her joys and sorrows, dreams and fears, achievements and failures, pleasures and pains, desires and disappointments, mental conflicts, and their resolution.

The poems have been written in a sublime manner to stir the imagination of the reader to appreciate these stages of femininity. The journey takes you through the dreamy, dreadful stages to a stage of fulfilment encompassing her childhood, academic journey, career, youth and finally motherhood.

The poems symbolize the dilemma of an ambitious woman who faces the pressures of academic excellence coming in the way of her desire to lead a carefree life. The poems also bring out the inherent fragilities of a woman in her day-to-day life and how she resolves to overcome the challenges of a male dominated society to emerge triumphant in her career and life.

Words about the book:
"Once you pick up this book, you have an insatiable appetite to finish it, just like a racy and juicy novel. She is a significant signature in the eminent list of Indian writers in English language. Her poems force you to think about the endless aspects of life. Her unique style is awe inspiring. She is destined to soar higher and higher and touch every heart. Readers shall want more; such is the force of her writings. "

As readers, you have already gotten a preview of some poems, do book your copy today for the complete list.
 A journey has started. A tiny step in a new direction, looking forward to moving ahead with leaps and bounds.

Tuesday, September 15, 2020

Freedom will come again



For all those captive to 2020 Pandemic, the freedom will come again,
Freely we will walk and swing,
Our footsteps in their tempo unrushed but with a spring, 

Out in the open and closed spaces we will all be,
Full of giggles, fun and glee,
All food cravings will be satisfied,
The need to travel, shop, roam about gratified,

In the meanwhile, we have the best of worlds at a glance,
Home and family time as never before so utilize this chance,

Give family games, long talks, family cooks and sing alongs their due time while you can,
Before normalcy again falls into place and life rushes past and you start longing for a pause.

Spend some with yourself too,
Hone your skills if you want,
Or just read, paint, dance or rest a while,
Don't wait it out, make the best of this new normal with a smile.

Monday, May 11, 2020

Too many goals

What does one do when there
are too many goals, too many wishes, the need to expand too wide? 
Should one tell ones passion to subside?
Or certain hobbies hide
Or by normalcy abide?
Where in the norms do you reside?

What do you when pulled you are in conflicting directions?
How to address the minds fluctuations?


Saturday, March 28, 2020

Pandemic 2020: Work from home practices

Team Practices

  • Have daily calls with your team

  • Meetings towards the start and end of normal working hours encourages the team maintain similar timings 

  • Over-communicate in initial stages to make sure there is clarity

  • It is always good to ask the person on the other side of the line if they can talk when you call. Or better still, fix times for calls as far as possible.

  • Utilize technology for better communications. Video calls work well. Screen sharing helps.

  • Get to know your team members 'environment and see how best they can be helped. Sometimes even listening helps.

  • Create some lighter moments through virtual games, general discussions or sharing some interesting thoughts. It can just be a short 15 minute exercise when possible. We as a team share an interesting thought by rotation everyday. The other day we played a 15minute virtual hangman, it was enjoyed by all.

  •  Have detailed discussions with subteams and encourage team members to work in subgroups and continue discussions within them.

  • It helps when team members self declare productivity. They add their key tasks and productivity percentage everyday. Enter yours as well in the same folder. In the beginning, reminders for calls and entering tasks may be required

  • Above all, trust them, they won't suddenly change due to work from home. Similar time taken for similar tasks also prove the same.


Individual practices


  • Maintain the same working hours as far as possible

  • Have more calls

  • Keep buffer for setting up

  • Keep a fixed workspace

  • Take regular short breaks. Tea, lunch, a short walk even in the house or light exercises

  • Find ways to make it more fun

  • Keep some time without calls, when you can just focus on the task at hand 

Friday, March 27, 2020

Pandemic 2020 lessons

By the end of this, we will learn:

  1. The value of food

  2. Ways to utilize all kinds of food items and ways to cook with minimal items and maximize its longlasting power

  3. How to cook. That is one skill all will most probably take away from this.

  4. The same for various other daily items. We will probably not waste things after this 

  5. Rationing of items

  6. Value of work and going out

  7. Value of a walk and fresh air, rainy days, cold days, sunny days. 

  8. Innovative ways to entertain kids

  9. Innovative ways to work from home, maximize team time.

  10. How all of us are the same and under similar circumstances

  11. Innovative ways to spend quality time

  12. Value of Family 

  13. Value of Human life

  14. Value of a clear and clutter free home

  15. Value of solitude

  16. How different people take calls in the same working space when you can't walk away

  17. Value of household help

  18. Value of routine

  19. Value of support system

  20. Innovative ways to stay healthy and exercise

  21. So much more....

WE are changing forever as history is getting created. For the first time in all our lives, the entire world faces the same situation and fights the same enemy.  Lets  let it bring out the best in us.

Wednesday, March 25, 2020

2020 Pandemic -4

Today A got milk. We put the alarm and made sure to get up early to get milk and break. Only one of us can go to get stuff since we don't want our child going out at all. Also today onwards, there is a curfew like situation. 
In the evening I tried to get tomatoes (again within the society) but everything was closed.
Just now there was an announcement by the PM. It is now an all India lockdown. And it is enforced. 21days lockdown. Is this really happening. My dad mentioned never having been through anything like this. Not even during war curfew. We are in this for the long haul. It's gonna tough. It's also gonna interesting in a strange way. 
Making the best of it is the new challenge. We aee making history. And if we defeat Corona Virus, it will be epic! 
We played family Bingo! Tomorrow I plan to play virtual Hangman with my team.



Tuesday, March 24, 2020

2020 Pandemic -3

Yesterday was Day 1 of Delhi Lockdown. Everything is closed now except essentials. I heard that there was a fight for milk yesterday and the police. It's scary to see the situation deteriorating so fast.
We did not go out, plan to go get milk tomorrow.
It's a stressful time. I taught my son weaving as a stressbuster in the evening. We sat and talked on his bunker bed which we had earlier cleared. We clear an area of house everyday. 
I was grateful to busy in work all day. Back to back calls. It was fun working at home together. Attend calls at the same time, do household chores and just help each other out. 

Monday, March 23, 2020

2020 Pandemic -2

Today the governments quarantined Delhi and many other states. A complete shutdown of metro services and railways. I think autos and cabs also.

Our office also closed operations. At least we no longer have to risk travel in this situation. Till yesterday that was a fear and one wondered about alternates like partial work from home and leaves.  Now all private industries are closed. But suddenly this also increases the fear even more. 
At 5pm, so many people gathered to make noise, ring bells and thalis.Clap together. It showed such solidarity. 

Then I got to know that my parents society is locked down. No maids, no staff. And noone can enter or leave. We can't help or meet indefinitely. It's not as if we were going out  or meeting right now, we were all isolated, but now we can't.
Suddenly it becomes more real. More confining. What all will this self confine teach us ahead? 

We watched Khataron ke Khiladi which was kind of soothing to see what all people cab endure. Gruesome and weird stuff. So methodically they do it. Some fail but are also unharmed. This reality too shall pass. 

Can we use the time turner here? Can it also fast forward? 

Sunday, March 22, 2020

2020 Pandemic - 1

It's 2020. Today we stayed in. Everything is closed. Shops, restaurants, malls, salons, school, colleges. The city and country may shut down anyday. Tomorrow is a single day Junta Curfew. 

Yesterday we got some basic groceries, making sure not to take more than 2 packets of anything to avoid hoarding. The Dal packets and butter and many such things were finished. But well, essentials are covered. We have a weeks supply of vegetables. We saw some people buying 50 packets of vim. Enough for a year, two years? The hoarding has begun and begun affecting people even as the government and shop keepers alike say that there is enough. 

Today our son got his report card online. He did very well and thus asked for a new toy. We promised one, after the Corona Virus saga ends. And the countdown begins.

Today we sanitized money. We already sanitize ourselves, mobiles, wash milk bags.

People suggest sanitizing dustbins, all furniture surfaces. Door knobs of course. Clothes and shoes worn outside need to be removed and separated immediately. People don't shake hands. If you sneeze, people glare instead exclaiming "bless you". 

A few days earlier, an elderly gentleman stood outside our society giving sanitizer to everyone, risking everyone at his age to protect the society. We see the worst and best sides of human beings these days.

A few days ago, I took my son to ride his bicycle (no parks so this seemed a no contact way out), he was stuck and before I reached him, an elder kid helped him out. Instead of feeling grateful, I felt afraid. Did he touch the cycle, my son's clothes? Should I sanitize? That was the last of our rides till this ends.

When we thought how 2020 would be, noone expected this.
Virus pausing  and consuming mankind. Is this reality or some Sci-fi novel? Robin Cook, are you controlling reality?

Saturday, March 14, 2020

Travelogue


"London is a riddle, Paris an explanation" ~G. K. Chesterton


Destination: UK and Europe


Places you visited: London and Paris


Best cuisine: British High Tea and French dessert


Breathtaking moments: 130meters high on London Eye, Harry Potter Studios in its full glory, first view of picture perfect Eiffel Tower and when it lights up.


One local word that you learnt: Sortie (Exit)


Few Lines about the people there: There are variations. The French know English and there are places in London where the people don't know English! There are those who would go out of the way to help and those who are matter of fact and busy. People in general though, will not treat you like Royalty in hotels or shops unlike India. 


One Must Try / Best Things to Do there: Don’t just do tourist spots. Do something that matters to you. In London, do something literary. It is home to so many authors and has  many author and book based museums. In Paris, spend some time on monuments besides the Eiffel Tower also. Do take a city tour: it could be coach/cruise or hop on hop off bus. It gives great historical insights.


Your advice for ‘Essentials to carry’: Thin raincoat, rainproof boots, longish coat, some layers, multiple scarfs and hats and you are done! 

And books, if on solo travel! 

A good internet connection to navigate. And a portable charger. Carry cash and cards. Carry only a little cash a day to avoid stress in touristy places. 

 Details: 

For my solo travel, I started off with London Paris, probably the most visited cities in UK and Europe. It gives a whiff of European flavor while one is rooted in English normalcy. The connection between the two cities was easily covered by a 2.5 hours Eurostar train.


What enthralled me were the quaint British houses and lanes. It's a pleasure just walking through different lanes. And well, a greater part of my journey was on foot and through tubes. The tubes give great accessibility and a greater sense of the city; not just geographically but also a sense of people's lifestyle and also fashion sense! This was common to both cities.  In Paris, the structures, monuments and statues hold on to you.and so does the views of the Eiffel Tower through the different hues of the day and different views of the city. 


When you are travelling alone, it's  completely ok to custom-plan based on the experiences you want to take back rather than standard tours. But it may just make sense to stretch a little more and see a little more. Generally 1-2 landmark points a day is good, keeping  a buffer day in each city. UK and European hotels generally don't offer great room service, if at all, so plan your dinners ahead of time or stay near a lot of good food options.


The culinary journey across these two cities is a delight. Whether it is the traditional English Breakfast, Sunday Roast or High Tea, it's worth trying. It, however, takes a lot of effort to find traditional British food in London which is a Hub for all nationalities, especially India. 

The French have some fabulous desserts. I personally loved the Madeleines and crepes. 


In London, do see Westminster's Abbey, Big Ben, Buckingham Palace but also take a detour to James Park or Hyde Park. Do ride the London Eye, one of the largest Ferris Wheel in the world, it's not overrated. Visit the Tower Bridge at night when it lights up (not London Bridge). Spare time to walk along these places.


In Paris, there is a lot more to the city than the Eiffel Tower and a lot more to Louvre than the Mona Lisa. Whichever part of Louvre, one visits, it is astounding in beauty, art and craftsmanship. Even the walls and ceilings are bejewelled and painted. The first view of the Glass Pyramid at  one side and Eiffel Tower on the other with sunset hues of pink silver and ocre is a sight etched into my memory forever.


"London is a riddle, Paris an explanation"

G. K. Chesterton


Destination: UK and Europe


Places you visited: London and Paris


Best cuisine: British High Tea and French dessert


Breathtaking moments: 130meters high on London Eye, Harry Potter Studios in its full glory, first view of picture perfect Eiffel Tower and when it lights up.


One local word that you learnt: Sortie (Exit)


Few Lines about the people there: There are variations. The French know English and there are places in London where the people don't know English! There are those who would go out of the way to help and those who are matter of fact and busy. People in general though, will not treat you like Royalty in hotels or shops unlike India. 


One Must Try / Best Things to Do there: Don’t just do tourist spots. Do something that matters to you. In London, do something literary. It is home to so many authors and has  many author and book based museums. In Paris, spend some time on monuments besides the Eiffel Tower also. Do take a city tour: it could be coach/cruise or hop on hop off bus. It gives great historical insights.


Your advice for ‘Essentials to carry’: Thin raincoat, rainproof boots, longish coat, some layers, multiple scarfs and hats and you are done! 

And books, if on solo travel! 

A good internet connection to navigate. And a portable charger. Carry cash and cards. Carry only a little cash a day to avoid stress in touristy places. 

 

For my solo travel, I started off with London Paris, probably the most visited cities in UK and Europe. It gives a whiff of European flavor while one is rooted in English normalcy. The connection between the two cities was easily covered by a 2.5 hours Eurostar train.


What enthralled me were the quaint British houses and lanes. It's a pleasure just walking through different lanes. And well, a greater part of my journey was on foot and through tubes. The tubes give great accessibility and a greater sense of the city; not just geographically but also a sense of people's lifestyle and also fashion sense! This was common to both cities.  In Paris, the structures, monuments and statues hold on to you.and so does the views of the Eiffel Tower through the different hues of the day and different views of the city. 


When you are travelling alone, it's  completely ok to custom-plan based on the experiences you want to take back rather than standard tours. But it may just make sense to stretch a little more and see a little more. Generally 1-2 landmark points a day is good, keeping  a buffer day in each city. UK and European hotels generally don't offer great room service, if at all, so plan your dinners ahead of time or stay near a lot of good food options.


The culinary journey across these two cities is a delight. Whether it is the traditional English Breakfast, Sunday Roast or High Tea, it's worth trying. It, however, takes a lot of effort to find traditional British food in London which is a Hub for all nationalities, especially India. 

The French have some fabulous desserts. I personally loved the Madeleines and crepes. 


In London, do see Westminster's Abbey, Big Ben, Buckingham Palace but also take a detour to James Park or Hyde Park. Do ride the London Eye, one of the largest Ferris Wheel in the world, it's not overrated. Visit the Tower Bridge at night when it lights up (not London Bridge). Spare time to walk along these places.


In Paris, there is a lot more to the city than the Eiffel Tower and a lot more to Louvre than the Mona Lisa. Whichever part of Louvre, one visits, it is astounding in beauty, art and craftsmanship. Even the walls and ceilings are bejewelled and painted. The first view of the Glass Pyramid at  one side and Eiffel Tower on the other with sunset hues of pink silver and ocre is a sight etched into my memory forever.



"London is a riddle, Paris an explanation"

G. K. Chesterton


Destination: UK and Europe


Places you visited: London and Paris


Best cuisine: British High Tea and French dessert


Breathtaking moments: 130meters high on London Eye, Harry Potter Studios in its full glory, first view of picture perfect Eiffel Tower and when it lights up.


One local word that you learnt: Sortie (Exit)


Few Lines about the people there: There are variations. The French know English and there are places in London where the people don't know English! There are those who would go out of the way to help and those who are matter of fact and busy. People in general though, will not treat you like Royalty in hotels or shops unlike India. 


One Must Try / Best Things to Do there: Don’t just do tourist spots. Do something that matters to you. In London, do something literary. It is home to so many authors and has  many author and book based museums. In Paris, spend some time on monuments besides the Eiffel Tower also. Do take a city tour: it could be coach/cruise or hop on hop off bus. It gives great historical insights.


Your advice for ‘Essentials to carry’: Thin raincoat, rainproof boots, longish coat, some layers, multiple scarfs and hats and you are done! 

And books, if on solo travel! 

A good internet connection to navigate. And a portable charger. Carry cash and cards. Carry only a little cash a day to avoid stress in touristy places. 

 

For my solo travel, I started off with London Paris, probably the most visited cities in UK and Europe. It gives a whiff of European flavor while one is rooted in English normalcy. The connection between the two cities was easily covered by a 2.5 hours Eurostar train.


What enthralled me were the quaint British houses and lanes. It's a pleasure just walking through different lanes. And well, a greater part of my journey was on foot and through tubes. The tubes give great accessibility and a greater sense of the city; not just geographically but also a sense of people's lifestyle and also fashion sense! This was common to both cities.  In Paris, the structures, monuments and statues hold on to you.and so does the views of the Eiffel Tower through the different hues of the day and different views of the city. 


When you are travelling alone, it's  completely ok to custom-plan based on the experiences you want to take back rather than standard tours. But it may just make sense to stretch a little more and see a little more. Generally 1-2 landmark points a day is good, keeping  a buffer day in each city. UK and European hotels generally don't offer great room service, if at all, so plan your dinners ahead of time or stay near a lot of good food options.


The culinary journey across these two cities is a delight. Whether it is the traditional English Breakfast, Sunday Roast or High Tea, it's worth trying. It, however, takes a lot of effort to find traditional British food in London which is a Hub for all nationalities, especially India. 

The French have some fabulous desserts. I personally loved the Madeleines and crepes. 


In London, do see Westminster's Abbey, Big Ben, Buckingham Palace but also take a detour to James Park or Hyde Park. Do ride the London Eye, one of the largest Ferris Wheel in the world, it's not overrated. Visit the Tower Bridge at night when it lights up (not London Bridge). Spare time to walk along these places.


In Paris, there is a lot more to the city than the Eiffel Tower and a lot more to Louvre than the Mona Lisa. Whichever part of Louvre, one visits, it is astounding in beauty, art and craftsmanship. Even the walls and ceilings are bejewelled and painted. The first view of the Glass Pyramid at  one side and Eiffel Tower on the other with sunset hues of pink silver and ocre is a sight etched into my memory forever.


Disclaimer: When I travelled, the coronavirus was just at its onset with only a single case in France and travelling was not at all inadviseable.

Monday, March 09, 2020

Balance

There are women who use weapons of tears and minor fears
And there are those tell them that as jeers
You need to cook and watch the baby
You can take more time
You need not try harder
You already have it harder

Ohh why glamourise if you are a career woman!
Why not dress up, why look tired if work at home?
Why not agree that you have it all,
If you work from home?

You can take it easy, 
You are a wife, a mom!
Why strive for the best position
It's early that you go home !!

And,
Why do you not do something worthwhile?
Like  work a while?
What do you do all day long?
Rest, sleep, watch and still frown?

Well, we do have the best
The best brains, resilience, strength and emotional capacity
As any other 
Any human being
And we work the same 
No more, no less
At home, office or at any place you guess,
Though some are still supressed!


But overcome it all, we will
As more and more understand equality
With which humanity is actually blessed
So lets join hands again,
And spread the equality,
Looking forward no special treatment, only normality!
So lets set the balance for this duality!



Wednesday, February 05, 2020

All the bright places: Jennifer Niven (quotes)

1. "The world breaks everyone and afterwards, many are strong at the broken places" ~Ernest Hemmingway

2. Rules of geocaching: take something, leave something

3. Early in our lives, early in the new year. If you're counting, you'll notice the earlys outnumber the lates

4. Arrange whatever pieces come your way.

5. I am rooted but I flow

6. When we're in the act of wandering, we need to be present, not watching it through a lens

7. The ugliest place is beauitiful to someone...to the people who live there

8. You have to live your life like  you'll never be sorry

9. You can't count on things staying around or standing still, no matter how much you want them to

10. Growth itself contains the germ of happiness. Maybe a germ is enough. Maybe a germ is all you need.

11. Germ: origin of something, a thing that may serve as the basis of further growth or development

12. The problem with people is that they forget  that most of the time it's the small things that count. Everyones' so busy in the Waiting Place.

13. There's a built in ending to everything in the world, right?

14. There is only now and if now is only two days then two days is your life and everything will be in proportion.

15. Sometimes things feel true even if they aren't. 

16. But does forever have a built-in ending?

17. Words can be bullies.
Positives one go on the wall and negative ones on the floor. They don't need to hang around after you do.

18. Your mountain is waiting so get on your way!

19. The thing I realize is that it's not what you take, it's what you leave

Tuesday, February 04, 2020

All the bright (and dark!) places

When life has so many real happy and tragic stories, how is it that a book can you feel so sad, completely out of it.
I wished I hadn't peeked but I guess one knows such endings much earlier as one after the other event leads up to it.

It's the kind of book I hate and love. As a writer it makes me feel inadequate. It makes me wonder why I write when I can see such beautifully written words. What treasures do I have to offer at all?

As a reader it makes me feel so completely out of it. I hate it for making me feel like that. And yet I respect the power within in it to make me feel it.

I wonder at myself why made up stories induce real feelings.

It's not something I will read again though I might share it's quotes later.

Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Book list 2019

This is my reading list for 2019. I read 90 books and 42 new ones. A lot, even for me! This was a relatively tougher year and books helped. Somehow, at the right time, I found the right book relating so well to that situation. I at least completed my books related resolutions: at least 2 new ones per month.

Here's to another year of reading! At the end, there is a link for possible new books and accessment of those read. Maybe the next year will involve revisiting some classics...

1. Six geese a laying by Sophie Kinsella

2. Let it snow John Green and others

3. My morning routine by Benjamin Spall and Michael Xander

4. The rooster bar by John Grisham

5. Finding Audrey by Sophie Kinsella

6.Neferet's curse by P C Cast

7. SVU: no rules

8. I've got your number by Sophie Kinsella

Feb

9. Can you keep a secret by Sophie Kinsella

10. Percy Jackson and the Sea of monsters by Rick Riordan

11. Percy Jackson and Titan's curse by Rick Riordan

12. Percy Jackson and Lightening Thief

13. Percy Jackson and the battle of the Labyrinth

14. Percy Jackson and the last Olympian

15. Heroes of Olympus: The lost hero

16. Heroes of Olympus: Son of Neptune

17. Heroes of Olympus: The mark of Athena

18. Heroes of Olympus: The House of Hades

19. New place, new face.

20. Heroes of Olympus: The blood of Olympus

March

21-23 Girl online series

24. Problems at Pollensa Bay by Agatha Christie

25. Tea for two and a piece of cake

26. Something Secret by Gwyneth Reese

27. Best Friends by Jacqueline Wilson

28-38. Sweet Valley University and High series (rereads)

39. Night of the Prom

40. The Rosie Project by Graeme Simsion

41. I owe you one by Sophie Kinsella

42. The Rosie Effect by Graeme Simpon

43. Thus Spoke Chanakya by Radhakrishnan Pillai

44. The Present by Spenser Johnson

45. The Lemon Cafe by Cathy Bramley

46. The girl with nine wigs by Sophie van der Stap

47. The little Christmas Kitchen by Jenny Oliver

48. A cat among the pigeons by Agatha Christie

49. Mrs. McGinty's dead by Agatha Christie

50. The moving finger by Agatha Christie

51. Crooked House by Agatha Christie

52. Murder is easy by Agatha Christie

53. At Bertram's Hotel by Agatha Christie

54. The babysitter's club by Ann M Martin

55. Stacey's truth by Ann M Martin

56. On a snowy night  by Debbie Macomber

57. Clean Break by Jacqueline Wilson

58. Living dead in Dallas by Charlaine Harris
59. Camp Club Girls by Shari Bari

60. The secret of Chimneys. Agatha Christie

61. Five little pigs by Agatha Christie.

62. The perfect holiday by Cathy Kelly

63. Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn

64. The silent patient by Alex

65-66. St Claires by Pamela Cox

67. Still me by Jojo Moyes

68. The right time by Danielle Steel

69. Close Encounters, Nancy Drew  by Carolyn Keene

70. Parker Pyne investigates by Agatha Chistie

71. Model Suspect, Nancy Drew by Carolyn Keene

72. The girl in room 5 by Chetan Bhagat

73. Lucky T by Kate Brian

74. Famous Five by  Enid Blyton

75. Everyboday worth knowing by Lauren Weisberger

76. Scrambled legs ( stupus cupids) by Jahnna N Malcolm

77.Scrambled legs ( we hate ballet) by Jahnna N Malcolm

78. The wishlist by Jane Costello

79. Girls in Pressure by Jacqueline Wilson

80. Bucket list Traveloholic by Sarika Pandit

81. Ghost Stories, Nancy Drew

82. Koi Good News by Zarreen Khan

83. Demigods and Magicians by Rick Riordan

84. Nancy Drew

85. 13 little blue envelopes by Maureen.

86. What Alice forgot by Liane Moriarty

87. Sisterhood of travelling pants, second summer by Ann Brashares

88. Forever blue, sisterhood of travelling pants by Ann Brashares

89. Sisterhood Everlasting by Ann Brashares

90. The bucketlist to mend a broken heart by Anna Bell


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