Grieving: a restructuring of life

Grieving is a different process for all of us. Recently I realized that it's very different from the regular tough times. In those times, one tries to overcome or wait out a time after which things become ok or at least that is the hope.

Here, there is no such hope. One can't ever get out of the situation. It is more like a chronic disease or a disability. It never goes away, one has to learn to live with it. One has to rewire oneself, restructure life and then just wait to get used to the pain, the change till it is part of every day life. One can never overcome. One can just learn to bear it. And live with it.