Monday, January 05, 2009

A new year

Hmmm ideally this should be my "Happy New Year" post but somehow the seems to have crept by me without me realizing this time.

Been trying to meet deadlines and declutter my room. This gave me an opportunity to walk down years down the memory lane. It's weird..I mean most of us have replied to where you will be 10 years hence soem time of the other....but what about 10 years earlier.
Those dreams, wishes , thoughts and ideals....have they been in fulfilled today or are they lost somewhere?
What I noticed most easily was that it's easier to be good and wise when you are young, innocent and even unhappy. You can get used to it. You can be selfless and have high ideals and just spread love.
But life changes all that. With each blow of betrayal that life throws, you grow a bit more cynical and a bit more "cautious" . And caution makes you selfish. Selfish soemtimes makes you take care of yourself and makes you happier though that shouldn't happen ideally. Once you get used to happiness it's diffrent ball game all together. Then life just moves in that direction.

I was so much wiser and more good 10 years earlier. But I am happier now. Paradox? Life is weird.
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22 comments:

  1. AnonymousTuesday, January 06, 2009 9:27:00 PM

    Life is weird very nice end .... it's actually is but it gives a reason to live

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  2. aditiTuesday, January 06, 2009 9:53:00 PM

    Reply[Ankur]
    Actually it's people that give u a reason to live...
    it's just an incentive if life is more interesting

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  3. AnonymousTuesday, January 06, 2009 9:56:00 PM

    Bonus is more interesting than actual thing ....

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  4. aditiTuesday, January 06, 2009 9:59:00 PM

    Reply[Ankur]
    Very well spotted!

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  5. AnonymousTuesday, January 06, 2009 10:01:00 PM

    Nice to know that intellectual once are agreeing with me :)

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  6. aditiTuesday, January 06, 2009 10:06:00 PM

    Reply[Ankur]
    U mean u agree wid urslef:)

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  7. AnonymousTuesday, January 06, 2009 10:09:00 PM

    No I was talking about intelligent and deep thinking bloggers i really appreciate bloggers and their thought process they can fetch anything from anywhere and i like to solve those new and unthinked problem it may be childish but i like doing it so i would like to thank all the bloggers !!!

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  8. aditiTuesday, January 06, 2009 10:15:00 PM

    Reply[Ankur]
    Glad to be of service:) Do continue to do so...bloggers need readers:)

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  9. AnonymousTuesday, January 06, 2009 10:25:00 PM

    See again words of humbleness and wisdom !!!

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  10. aditiTuesday, January 06, 2009 11:40:00 PM

    Reply[Ankur]
    Only words of honesty :)

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  11. AnonymousTuesday, January 06, 2009 11:48:00 PM

    Honesty is another trait of great people :)

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  12. aditiTuesday, January 06, 2009 11:51:00 PM

    Reply[Ankur] I am flattered :)

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  13. AnonymousTuesday, January 06, 2009 11:53:00 PM

    Bloggers know how to use the words really well :)

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  14. aditiTuesday, January 06, 2009 11:55:00 PM

    Reply[Ankur] Bloggers know how to use words to speak the language of their hearts :)

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  15. AnonymousTuesday, January 06, 2009 11:58:00 PM

    That's something really interesting and difficult ... i may get some knowledge by reading it :)

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  16. aditiWednesday, January 07, 2009 12:03:00 AM

    Reply[Ankur]
    And you may give lots also :)

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  17. AnonymousWednesday, January 07, 2009 12:15:00 AM

    Only intellectuals like bloggers can consider anyone to provide with some knowledge and even if you don't have any then also they will make you feel you know everything !!! very high convincing power too

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  18. PriThursday, January 08, 2009 9:04:00 AM

    consider ur lucky to get to say u were wiser 10 years back and are happier now...for most people (including myself) its usually the other way around :)

    take care!

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  19. aditiThursday, January 08, 2009 5:14:00 PM

    Reply[Pri]

    Hey isn't that what is called
    "progress" and isn't that better..

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  20. aditiThursday, January 08, 2009 5:15:00 PM

    Reply[Ankur] Everyone knows something, you just need to be to draw them out..

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  21. BhushanSaturday, January 10, 2009 3:56:00 AM

    life indeed is full of contradictions!!
    Wish you a great year ahead :)

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  22. aditiSaturday, January 10, 2009 11:39:00 AM

    Reply[mostlybhu]Sure is! Thanx and Happy New Year to you also:)

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